Am in my head with this!!

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  1. dianethare

    dianethare Senior Investor

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    Alright, am headed to the shop and on the way i meet this girl, she sort of knows me but we rarely talk {actually we never talk} and the greeting she passes me is a disgusting sneer, why would a person do that?...am just wondering and racking my brain over this!
    My question is when someone sneers at you it means what exactly?...is it jealously, disdain, hate...?! and how should one handle such a human being, should a slap suffice or an earful ?!...am lost here :confused:
     
  2. Glcameron

    Glcameron Well-Known Member

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    Perhaps that person heard you said something mean about them or they were doing it playfully. I think you should really evaluate how you want to approach the situation with that person before really racking your brain. Maybe you could call or find that person on social media, and really have a chat about how they feel about you to cause that type of gesture. Take the time to show them that you are proactive about being the fantastic person you know you can be or simply take the route that I would and ignore it. There will always be someone who gives you a look or feels some type of way about you, don't let it mess up your day.
     
  3. Rainman

    Rainman Senior Investor

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    Could it be a reaction to how you looked at her? It always very hard to tell why people do what they do. And the only way to find out what exactly happened is to confront the lady the next time you meet. She could lie or opt not to respond but you'll have got it off your chest. Who knows, you might end up being very good friends afterwards!
     
  4. crimsonghost747

    crimsonghost747 Senior Investor

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    Women... cannot be understood. Forget about it and move on. :p
     
  5. JR Ewing

    JR Ewing Super Moderator Staff Member

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    If you've never talked to her or had any interactions with her and she gives you nasty looks, I'd say there's a good chance she may be one of those mentally ill people who tend to "hang out" in public places.
     
  6. AtlantaSports

    AtlantaSports Senior Investor

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    My life motto: You can't live with em, you can't live without em.
     
  7. My401K

    My401K Well-Known Member

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    I tend to give people a benefit of doubt, the look you saw may have nothing at all to do with you. Maybe she had a bad day and your good morning was just at the wrong time. We all have seen that, come into a shop or something and say good morning and in return you get the "I could kill you" look I just would never jump to the conclusion that someone that I have never talked to would just have a hatred for me.

    Now if you are the type that has stood starring with your tongue out drooling, then she might think your some sort of stalker type, in which case you should just let it go. Seriously though, if it was just bad timing you will see, just back off and wait. remain nice and act lie nothing is wrong. The ball is now in her court.
     
  8. Fredrick Jones

    Fredrick Jones Well-Known Member

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    The person could have been having a bad day, and then maybe they are in a bad mood. Maybe they just do not like the way your face looks. Unless you have actually done anything rude don't worry about it. There could be many reasons why this happened.

    Unless you have done something wrong, then don't worry about it. If you have appologize.
     
  9. Sunflogun

    Sunflogun Well-Known Member

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    lol can well be this! Just yesterday I was on the street and this normal looking guy came to me and started talking like he knew me, so he was crazy. More and more crazy people on the streets, not only on office! :D
     
  10. JoshPosh

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    She doesn't like the way you look or the impression she gets from the first visual impression. That's all it is. Why wrap your head around it and let it bother you. That's human nature, being judgmental. Making yourself feel better by looking down at others.
     

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