I used to get so angry when one of my friends mentioned my ex- spouse. He married someone else and still continued to see me without telling me about it. I felt so betrayed when I found out that I did not want to hear anything about him. I woke up one Saturday and realized that I had to forgive him for me. I met with him months later in a popular place. I even stopped to say hello and that was the beginning of my getting over him. Have you forgiven yours?