Do you have individual/s in you lives who do not know when to pull back a bit and allow you space to breathe? I do. There is this girl down the road who works at the same place where I do, she started there about 8 months ago and I barely know this woman. She seem to be drawn to me and she will find me everyday and just talk non stop about things that are not even of interest to me. I get home in the evenings and I want to work done and sleep sometimes and there she is at my gate as soon as she changes her clothes hollering at me. I do not open the grill, I stand there and speak to her. One day a letter was left in the box and I went for it, this was the green light for her. She came inside and I told her I was sleepy (thinking she would say ok then later) she said she did not mind, I should go ahead and get some rest, she would watch a little TV. I am trying to find a way to break it to her as mildly as possible that I do not know her to the extent to be this close to her.